I didn’t come to this work because I wanted to fix people.
I came to it because I’m deeply interested in how people make decisions, how patterns form, and how lives change over time.
I chose to work in prisons with people the rest of the world had thrown away because I don’t believe anyone is born bad. I believe things happen to us, and we make decisions in response. Sometimes one seemingly small or impulsive decision sets off a chain of consequences that becomes very difficult to interrupt.
What often follows is a negative feedback loop. A choice leads to consequences, those consequences narrow options, pressure increases, and under pressure people tend to repeat what they already know. Over time, the pattern becomes reinforced. Not because people want it, but because it feels inevitable.
Working with incarcerated populations taught me how rarely lives fall apart all at once. More often, they tighten slowly. Shame builds. Possibility shrinks. Patterns repeat. When they go unexamined, they don’t disappear. They harden.
My work with ICE reinforced something just as fundamental: hope is universal. It is not dependent on language, country of origin, or the color of your skin. Hope is what allows people to keep moving forward even when circumstances are constrained and choices are limited. Hope doesn’t erase consequences, but without it, nothing changes.
I believe strongly in values, ethics, and moral frameworks. Guardrails matter. They don’t restrict a meaningful life; they make one possible. My work is spiritually grounded. I start my day in Scripture because discipline, humility, and alignment matter to me, not just emotionally, but morally.
I also believe joy matters. Not escapism. Not indulgence. Purpose. Meaning. What you value and what you pursue shape the life you build. Choice determines outcome. There is always an outcome.
This work isn’t about comfort or reassurance.
It’s about understanding patterns, taking responsibility for choice, and holding enough hope to interrupt what no longer serves you.